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During my weight loss journey and often when people hear what I do “at my age” 
, I am asked how I can keep doing it. This question always catches me by surprise as I rarely have a conscious thought about not doing what I need to continue to reach for optimal health. A day wasted is a day lost.
Don’t get me wrong last week we helped some wonderful friends back and move their house. This was a 4 day project after work. Was a lot of lifting, stacking, packing, bending and all kinds of exercise. So after the first day, I didn’t do my morning workout for 3 days. I went to bed each night exhausted and feeling good about how well this old man humped all that stuff.
This morning I realized that my workouts are a lot like my life in general. I have come to realize over the years that life is lived in moments. Some moments are like the next rep of curling a dumbbell to my chin. If it is the first few reps it seems easy enough, but as the set nears completion, it will become harder for me to complete that set with the full number of reps. Now if I don’t increase the weight, it stays easy, but no progress is made.
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Life is that way isn’t? If we glide through it we get comfort zone results. We live from what is easy. There is little challenge, little growth and often no or very little progress. Kinda of boring don’t you think? That is where I used to survive from. It seemed like it was all I could do. Perhaps as you read this it is where you feel you are now as well. Well I have some good news for you, it isn’t that hard to get more from life.
When obesity limited my life, I had no energy, no motivation and struggled each day with pain, depression, and various concerns of my health. Had I given up I would have lived out my life in a much shorter time span. I would have allowed the doctors and the pharmacy to control how my body “survived” for the time I had left. I just had to make new choices and become more conscious that it really is about moment to moment living.
So ask yourself right now, what choices do I make in each moment to have a fuller, more fulfilled life. Notice I didn’t ask where you are now. I didn’t look for the reasons you got there, I asked what are you going to do to change it? I don’t believe in being stuck in the past, or what someone just said that hurt my feelings. I believe in the statement “If it is to be, it is up to me!” What say you?
Today my legs where killing me from the workout I gave them 2 days ago. The workout is designed to take the muscle to near failure and was one of the toughest leg workouts I have done in a long while. So I have a lot of lactic acid burning up my muscle. I thought a slow walk was a good idea.
Now normally I would have my Nike+ shoes and my Ipod Nano to record my mileage. Gotta get those miles logged so people can see I live what I preach. I am kidding, well kinda, I have to admit I like seeing the miles add up. But, when you really take a look at it, it really only matters that I am working on my health to continue the journey I started. So off I went for a slow, maybe painful walk to get some circulation going in my legs. No music. No measurement of time (how fast or slow I was going). Just a walk to feel better was all I was after.
It is a sunny day in Boise today. My walk during the day is almost always on the greenbelt and today was no exception. It was a sunny 88 degrees and humid. Little did I know that more than my legs were about to get restored.
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I looked around, there where all kinds of things to see and hear. First was the kayaker floating and bobbing along down the river. A reminder of things still on my “bucket list”, one day to take either a white water rafting trip or lean to kayak and venture the wild waters in Idaho. Then there was the man and his dog walking along the banks. This one took me back to the recent lost of my dear pet and friend that recently passed away after being with us for 20+ years.
I walked on as my legs started to free up a bit and each step seemed a bit lighter. I started thinking about some of the recent events in my life that needed quiet contemplation to come to some sort of decision. No music, no concern about a pace, just walking along the river on a hot summer day. As I searched my soul, that still quiet voice (note to self, you still have to get quiet to hear it) led me into the next steps and an inner knowing what to do next.
Getting ready to go around the bend I noticed the bike rider coming around the turn and waited in case he would go left instead of right. He actually stopped for me to cross and we exchanged smiles that acknowledged we where both courteous to each other’s journey. On across the old steel bridge, the boards creaked and bounced as I looked up and down the river noticing for the first time all week that the water level had changed and enjoy the flying cottonwoods as they floated through the air like angels guarding us along the way.
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On to the home stretch, sun beating down and body getting warmer now as the sweat started to form on my brow. Half way and my walk would be done. I was almost sad for it to be over till I hear all the birds signing and I became lost in the harmony of their song. Be still they sang and enjoy the day. Each step, took me closer to my destination.
Last bridge and only a few yard to the door. As the real world approached I realized that the walk had done more for my health than getting the blood moving in my aching legs. It had renewed my spirit. It had reminded me of the sights and sounds of life being enjoyed around me. As the sweat poured down my brow it also reminded me of the days when I would have never thought of walking off those aches and pains of life that I had just been released from. And often never took the time to enjoy the sweet moments being active has to offer.
I hope in some small way this reaches one person and makes a difference in their life. It reminds them to take a moment and enjoy their walk. It doesn’t have to be for exercise. It doesn’t have to be around a park. It can be just for a brief moment when you hear the birds sing out to you or smell the fresh scent of the lilac trees as they send their scent through the air. Oh and that still small voice, it is always in waiting for when you take the time to listen. Be blessed and enjoy the journey!
Often I am surrounded by people who think I live such a naïve form of life. I have faith, I have hope and I am rarely concerned about my life in many ways these days. This was not always the case. If you have read this blog you often will hear me refer to the days before I lost my weight and changed the focus in my life.
I didn’t like the way I felt back then, but I still never gave up working on being excited about life and finding a way out. Struggle is tough! It sometimes takes all we have to keep going. Heck there are still some days at the end of the day I am glad that day is over. The good news though is even those days have something exciting happening and progress is made in some area of my life.
What’s the difference? I get to set the pace! I make the choices to stick to the plan I have or to take some time off from it. I had to laugh yesterday I was told that I sure have myself in a lot of areas. I work with clients, I am part of a team putting together a revolutionary life coaching plan, I do clinical hypnotherapy, have a full time IT position that put me on call, I watch what I eat and exercise, and recently have been asked to go back into ministry work. Sounds like a full plate. My response was that in one of my favorite life giving books I often read that if you are given talents you should use them or they may be taken away. In the same book it tells me to whom much is given, much is expected.
With all that said than I control my life with choices. I choose into my life to get all life has to offer. Diet and exercise take time and planning. So does being ill, it robs hope and joy along with time. Everything has a cost. I just look for the results rather than getting bogged down in the effort. It is more fun to be fit rather than struggling with carrying around all that extra weight. It was a small price to pay for the fullness of life I experience now.
Want control of your Life? Take it, plan it, work it, and live it. Start replacing disempowering thoughts with empowering thoughts. Learn to breath. Find out what faith and hope is again. Stop the excuses, stop the self abuse, and take one step at a time. Do it and keep going at it. Perfection is not the mantra here. It is all about the journey and what you learn along the way. After all whose life is it anyways?
Not sure where to start? Fill out a contact form and lets talk. No charge! Yeah, that is one more thing I do, help others to find a way to get started to enjoy their life. After all, to whom much has been given, much is expected.
I get to enjoy going in to work every day and talking with some of the most interesting people. Many of them I am sure think I over-analyze stuff all the time. After all I am the computer geek so it is natural to be accused of this often. I am also the guy that talks way too much about weight loss, health, and fitness to make most people happy.
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Today was no exception. I was talking about the trip up to the summer camp on the bus with the “at risk” kids on their way to be treated to loving one on one care all week. I was then asked if I “had to” go back up on Friday to bring them back. Which I responded with “No I don’t have to, I get to!” Well you know what I meant was the response. To which I explained there is a difference.
The difference is in how you approach the task. I hear it all the time from clients. The ones that “have to” do something consider the sacrifice and the work they are doing as a chore or an unwanted task. It is all about the food they miss or how tough it is to stay on track. The one’s that “get to” consider it a chance to improve their lives and their health. The things they get to do are simply part of the process towards being a better, healthier individual.
You see I am blessed. I get to go to a gym 3-5 times a week. I get to walk 2 miles during my lunches around a beautiful park and river run. I get to pay attention to what I eat. I get to compete with other walkers and runners after years of hating to run or walk any distance. I get to go up on Friday and see the faces of a group of kids that this week may be the only week this year that they feel really appreciated and blessed. They will be excited, they will be energized and they may even be a handful. I am sure that it will be another blessing to be at their service and perhaps find one more opportunity to encourage and bless them on the way.
So if that is over analyzing then I will continue to do that to. Cause, I get to choose the way I think, the way I feel, the way I handle challenge and the way I handle blessings. You see I have found out it is a lot more fun to see life as a choice instead of a “have to”. I come at it feeling empowered and motivated, instead of repressed and forced. I get to enjoy life! Hey maybe even tomorrow I will get to write another story from the joy of having a job and having people think I am cut from a different cloth than many.
Locally here in Idaho and even in Britain they are looking at way to add incentive to weight loss. Idaho offers state employees a “rebate” of sorts if they participate in a very limited number of choices for weight loss programs. Interesting the choices are limited to only those companies that sponsor paying the incentive. Oh and when you do the math, the sponsors make a whole lot more on the programs then what they pay back for the weight loss. When I tried to probe deeper into why the program did reward all weight loss and not just if you sign up for a particular program my phone calls and emails were never returned. It was obvious, but I just wanted to have the debate with them.
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Lets face it, if the Governor really wanted to add incentive to weight loss and fitness the program would reward whatever weight loss was achieved. They would sponsor more activities and incentives to cover the many aspects of becoming more fit. Truth here it is really a token effort put together to make it look like it matters and that they really care at all.
Add that to the hospitals promoting new ways to carve up your body in often untested over time ways, junk food sponsoring of things like the Olympics and you start to see a pattern. There is a huge industry around the idea that is weight loss and fitness. What is a person to do.
Let’s start with some education. Take some time and read this article in the Guardian. Then ask yourself a couple of questions. Is my health important to me? If so, then why am I not taking care of it? Next, Can I do it myself or do I need some help? Truth is everyone can but few people do. Why because they don’t have the time to do it efficiently and effectively. They don’t have time to plan their workouts, plan their diet, get back in shape, and do it all without damaging themselves. Add to that the understanding of how their body uses food and processes it, they just don’t have the time or the willingness to do all that.
What’s the answer? Find someone (give us a try for an hour on the phone) and spend the time to see if you are serious about your health and fitness. Look at the fact that it is half way through the year. Did you make that New Years Resolution that this year would be different? If so, is it? Can you do it on your own? Sure you can! But will you? You can’t and won’t be bribed, it is all about choices and lifestyle changes. Let us guide you carefully through the journey to a point where the force of habit takes over and you can and will do it on your own.
This morning looked like yet another rainy day in Boise, Idaho. I decided if I was going to get in my exercise today I had to either take the bike or walk. It looked like rain so I decided to walk while I could and get my exercise done on the way to work. Little did I know how enjoyable it would be.
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When you don’t walk around your neighborhood much you miss things. These are things you might drive by every day but you just don’t really notice them. Sure you see the neighbor’s yard with the flowers and the gardens being started. But you miss something. You miss the smell of the flowers and the sound of the earth waking up in the early morning.
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So on my 2.5 miles into work I enjoyed several flowers, animals and even some funny human behavior. Imagine watching a bike rider who with all the gear and gadgets it was obvious that they were riding for their health and the environment, however when you look at the see-thru pouch of their backpack you see a load of soda and junk food. I find it amusing that they would work so hard to keep in shape and fuel their body with junk. But everyone makes choices I just observe.
Another added benefit was how clear my mind was when I got to work. I enjoy the mornings as that is my most productive time of the day, but this morning was even better. My energy was ramped up as was my metabolism. It made for a great start to my day. I even made it to work 10 mins early even though the boss wasn’t here today to see it.
It wasn’t all roses but it was all interesting. There is a segment of the walk that goes through where many of our city’s homeless hang out for early morning coffee and donuts (yeah don’t get me started on food programs) but even this has it’s own sights, sounds and things to learn. I just keep walking and looking around to stay on task to get to work because there but by the grace would I be.
Lesson for the day everyone is I burned off over 300 calories on the way in. I felt great. I improved my body and my health. Better yet, I was reminded of how great the earth is during a time where all I hear is bad news and how we are destroying our planet. I got to enjoy the peace and solitude of walking and seeing all that has been created around me. I got more familiar with my neighborhood at a pace slow enough to enjoy an observe the beauty of life around me.
Peace of mind, exercise, and some lessons along the way. Not a bad way to start a day. What can you do for all of that? Share your ideas with us!
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I am reminded during Memorial day weekends of people that have come and gone in my life. I remember my grandfather that has passed from cancer and who fought in a World War only to came back with his faith challenged from the tragedies he saw. I still remember his questioning the existence of God and the stories he told me. I remember my dad who died of cancer yet lived the life of a proud Marine even though his service time led to a broken back and a life of pain. I remember my good friend Jim who fought with his weight and struggled with diabetes all his life only to swiftly die too young. I remember each one and what they taught me. They taught me freedom isn’t Free, it has to be fought for.
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Each one stood for the idea that if we want freedom’s in our life we have to go after them. We have to claw, fight, struggle and seek those freedoms. Many would offer easy solutions but dedication and work was needed to get out of life the things that many people take for granted. By nature we all seek the easy road, but by design only those things that become habit and purpose will stay with us. Our life choices will determine the outcome, not some cosmic spinning wheel of fate or luck.
This comes to our health as well. We have choices presented to us moment by moment. Eat this, don’t eat that. It is all choices that will determine our weight loss or weight gain. It will determine if our body will operate at optimal health or something less than. It is never just simple calories in versus calories out. There is no quick fix although there are choices that will take us where we want to be faster. But like all choices we have to make the ones that will take us where we want to go. It gets down to choosing health or illness. Freedom or something less.
So today I choose to keep fighting for health. Fighting to help others find it. Taking on a different battle but taking in on with everything I have. Why? Because I have a legacy of fighters in my life that taught me that “Freedom in any area of life is worth fighting for!” And I take nothing away from the battles and the struggles those very dear to me fought. Today like many days I still hear them say to fight the good fight no matter where you find your battle. Live life to the fullest and help those who would come along beside you. For many people died so that you might have those choices to make each day.
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